Recent studies now show that the one metric we have that can measure happiness is the quality of our relationships.

Friends, coworkers, neighbors, kids...and of course, your spouse!!!

Our relationship with our significant other is usually overlooked. And just like a plant, if we don't take care of it regularly, it will not grow...and eventually die. We all know the impact on our lives when our relationship at home is not doing well. It impacts our work, our focus and everything around us. 

At the beginning of a relationship, we want to know everything about our partner. This is what is called intimacy. To uncover all the deep things about our partner. And also, we desire them deeply as well.

But as time goes on, the desire fades because couples become one. And the individual gets lost in the relationship. So, you don’t desire each other as much. And with this an empty feeling inside is felt and the relationship is just missing something. Let me give you some tips on how to improve your relationship with your spouse.

Space

No, not club space…well maybe. A healthy relationship needs natural space. And to create this space we are talking about:

Girls/guys night/weekend out

Play sports

Go back to school

Whatever you specifically need to create the space is up to each individual. What this does is, it allows things to happen without your spouse being there. And then when you see each other again you have stories to tell each other and express. Questions are asked, stories are told…just like they were when you first started. And you start seeing your spouse with that amazing light that you first met them with and the desire starts to come back again.

Build Anticipation

Set up dates! Yes, you heard me…plan out dates. This is simple but so powerful because people feel today that things should just happen like the movies. Out of nowhere. But then are left waiting for things to occur. The key is to be intentional with your dates. You still want surprises to happen. Tell your spouse that you have something planned for Friday, but don’t tell them exactly what. This will still leave things up for anticipation.

So, you need to sprinkle these dates throughout your month so you always have things to look forward to. Take turns. The dates can be new things, sexual or simple. As long as you are planning things out together and keeping the relationship spicy.

So, there are 2 simple ways to add desire back into your relationship instantly.

 You are welcome you sexy animals,

Andy

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